Questions
Everything you need to know before you pack your bags. Can't find your answer? Text us.
The Basics
Is this a destination wedding?
For about half our guests, yes. Mexico City is one of the most exciting cities in the world right now. To those of you flying in, we promise you will not regret making the trip.
What is the dress code?
Black tie — not black tie optional. That means tuxedos and floor-length gowns. Check our Dress Code page for full details and what to avoid.
What language will the ceremony be in?
100% in English.
Is the wedding indoors or outdoors?
The ceremony is at a stunning historic church (Templo Metodista de la Santísima Trinidad) and it's a short 2 minute walk to the reception which is fully indoors at Club de Banqueros. October evenings in CDMX can be cool, so bring a light wrap if you run cold.
Are there any pre-wedding events?
Yes — there will be a pre-wedding gathering in the days before the wedding. Details will be sent to invited guests closer to the date. If you're travelling in, plan to arrive a few days ahead.
Guests & Plus Ones
Am I allowed a plus one?
Plus ones are by invitation only — your invite will make it clear. If you're not sure, reach out to us directly rather than assuming. As there will be assigned seating, we'd rather have that conversation than an awkward moment at the door.
Are children welcome?
We respectfully request an adults-only reception, allowing all of our guests to enjoy the evening fully. For guests traveling with little ones, we will have on-site childcare available — reach out to us in advance so we can make sure everything is arranged.
Can I bring a date who wasn't on the original invite?
Please reach out to us first. We'll always try to accommodate where we can, but we have a firm headcount with the venue.
Travel & Logistics
Do I need a visa to visit Mexico?
US and most European passport and visa holders do not need a visa for Mexico — just a valid passport. You'll fill out a tourist card (FMM) on arrival, which is free. Check your country's requirements to be safe.
Which airport should I fly into?
Mexico City has two airports: AICM (Benito Juárez, the main one, code MEX) and AIFA (Felipe Ángeles, further out — avoid unless you get a significantly better fare). Fly into MEX.
How do I get from the airport to my hotel?
Uber is the best option — open the app as soon as you land and follow signs to the official ride-hailing pickup zone. You can also pre arrange rides from the airport. Do not accept rides from people approaching you inside the terminal.
Is it safe to travel to Mexico City?
Yes, in the neighborhoods you'll be in. Condesa, Roma, Polanco, and Centro Histórico are well-trafficked, safe areas for tourists. Use Uber instead of street taxis at night, keep your phone in your pocket on the street, and you'll be fine. Millions of tourists visit every year.
Is there parking at the venue?
Club de Banqueros has limited parking. We strongly recommend taking Uber — Centro Histórico is busy on weekends and parking is stressful. Uber will drop you right at the door.
Will there be transportation between the ceremony and reception?
The church and reception venue are a short 2 minute walk around the corner from each other in Centro Histórico.
The Day
What time should I arrive for the ceremony?
Doors open at 5:30 PM. The ceremony begins at 6:30 PM sharp. Please be seated by 6:15 PM — the church is very strict on the timeline, so we will start on time.
Will there be a meal at the reception?
Yes — a full sit-down dinner, followed by dancing. Please include any dietary restrictions in your RSVP.
Can I take photos during the ceremony?
We'll have a moment at the start for you to capture the scene — then we'll ask that phones go away so everyone can be fully present. Our photographer will handle the rest. More details to come closer to the date.
Is there a seating chart?
Yes — there will be assigned seating at the reception. You'll find your seat when you arrive at Club de Banqueros.
Will there be an open bar?
Yes. Please drink water too.
Mexico City
What's the altitude like?
Mexico City sits at 7,350 feet (2,240m) above sea level — higher than Denver. Most people feel fine, but some experience headaches, fatigue, or shortness of breath in the first day or two. The best thing you can do: arrive a couple days early if possible, drink a lot of water, go easy on alcohol your first night, and rest. By the time the wedding comes around you should be fully adjusted.
Will the altitude affect drinking at the reception?
Yes — alcohol hits faster and harder at altitude, full stop. You don't need to abstain, just pace yourself and drink water between drinks. We'd rather you remember the night.
Can I drink the tap water?
No. Tap water in Mexico City is not safe to drink. Bottled water is everywhere and cheap — your hotel will have it, every restaurant will have it. When in doubt, ask for 'agua embotellada.' Brushing your teeth with tap water is fine.
How do I stay connected — phone and data?
US guests: most American carriers (T-Mobile, Google Fi, and many others) include Mexico in their plan — check with your provider before you travel, you may be covered already. If you're travelling from further afield, don't rely on international roaming. Your best bet is a local Mexican SIM card (Telcel has the best coverage) available at the airport or any OXXO convenience store for a few dollars. If your phone supports eSIM, you can set one up before you even land. Either way, download WhatsApp — it's how everyone in Mexico communicates and how we'll be reaching guests.
How much should I tip?
10% is standard at restaurants — it's genuinely appreciated and not automatic like in the US. 15% if the service was really good. For hotel staff, bellhops, and housekeeping, a few pesos goes a long way.
Any useful Spanish phrases?
A little goes a long way. The basics: 'Gracias' (thank you), 'Por favor' (please), 'La cuenta, por favor' (the check, please), '¿Dónde está el baño?' (where's the bathroom?), '¿Habla inglés?' (do you speak English?), 'Agua embotellada' (bottled water), and 'Salud' (cheers — you'll use this one a lot).
Anything else to know about arriving?
Eat something when you land — altitude and an empty stomach is a rough combo. Avoid heavy exercise your first day. If you're prone to headaches, bring ibuprofen. Some people swear by taking an aspirin before landing. Most importantly: give yourself a full day before the wedding to settle in rather than arriving the same day.
RSVPs & Registry
When is the RSVP deadline?
Please RSVP by September 1, 2026. After that date we cannot guarantee we can accommodate you.
I need to change my RSVP — what do I do?
Life happens. Just reach out to us directly via text or email and we'll sort it out.
Do you have a gift registry?
We do, though your presence is genuinely the best gift. Check the Registry page for our honeymoon fund and Zola registry.
Should I bring a gift to the wedding?
If you'd like to bring something, we'd be touched, but it's not obligatory. If you prefer to give digitally, our honeymoon fund and Zola registry are on the Registry page.
Still have questions?
We made a special email address specifically for the wedding. Reach out any time.
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